Usually in a group of friends there are token characters… the perfectionist, the drama queen, the practically married, and I could go on and on. All of the different friends balance each other out, but not in my case. I feel like all I have in my circle are drama queens, and lately all of the phone calls I get are girls crying, or cursing or fussing about some guy in their life. Geeez Louise!!! Is there anyone who is happy about anything right now? I just want to be happy and hang with my girls and go shopping like the other billion chicks on earth but that seems impossible cause none of my homies are in a position to do so. I’m tired of counseling my friends about drama that could totally be controlled if they just make a few good decisions. It’s kinda like they get their kicks from being a drama queen, and the center of attention. I’ve gotten to a point where I don’t have anyone to turn to with my issues because they have so many of their own that they have nothing to say that could help me. So here I am hold everything inside. I know girls have issues (a lot of issues) but damn we occasionally take breaks from the dramatics and just live. What’s a girl to do when you feel alone in a group of friends or you have a friend that you keep telling the same thing to over and over and OVER AGAIN!!!! what a waste of breath!!! Do you continue to tell her over and over or do you keep it to yourself?
Peace and Love,
Good Girl
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I’m kinda glad I read this post today. There was a time when I went through this phase myself and I drew closer to my family. My mom, sister and grandmother have been the backbone in my life, they are never to busy to listen to me or my issues – no matter how small they are. Once I learned that I could only depend on myself for happiness and realized that most of my happiness came from spedning time with my family I didn’t blame my friends for having their own issues anymore. They aren’t always there when I call them, but they are always there when I need them – and I’ve learned that that is what is most important.